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Luisteren

27 September 2017

Luisteren, écht luisteren, is één van de moeilijkste dingen
die een mens voor een ander mens kan doen.

Vaak probeert men wel te horen, 
maar gaat de inhoud van jouw woorden verloren.

Vaak heeft men geen oren naar wat je zegt,
is de confrontatie te groot, het beeld te echt.

Vaak is men niet klaar voor wat je deelt, 
is er geen ruimte voor wat jij met woorden verbeeldt.

Vaak past men je woorden aan naar hun realiteit, 
zodat jij opnieuw past in hun eigen waarheid.

Vaak vult men jouw ruimte met hun eigen levensverhaal, 
projecties als oplossing voor het jouwe met hen centraal.

Vaak is er geen ruimte om je woorden te laten klinken, 
blijft je gewoon er-zijn in hun taal wegzinken.

Vaak wens je enkel ruimte en geen antwoord, 
maar blijft men spreken tot jij aan hen zegt ‘Akkoord’.

Luisteren, écht luisteren, is één van de mooiste dingen
die een mens voor een ander mens kan doen.